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Tom, Tim and Jesse's Giving Story

Tom smiling in the outdoors

In 2014, Tom and his sons Tim and Jesse established a scholarship fund to honor the enduring impact of their wife and mother, Mary.

Why did you decide that a scholarship fund was the right way to memorialize Mary?

Jesse: She was passionate about teaching. She taught her students to think critically. That's where you make a difference in people's lives that truly makes a difference in the world. A scholarship would continue to support her students at Burnsville High School and continue her legacy of impacting students.

Tim: One of mom’s colleagues wrote this to me after the memorial: “Saddened as I am to learn of Mary's passing, I am heartened to know there will be a scholarship, which will honor in an ongoing way the commitment she had to students.”

Tim sitting and talking to Tom and Jesse

Inspiring Generosity

For more than 80 years, we’ve helped donors like Tom, Tim and Jesse make an impact on the causes that are most important to them and their families. We’ve seen one individual’s kind actions inspire an entire family, and when that generosity is poured into the community, it can have a ripple effect.

Tom holding a photo of his wife Mary

Why do you think social change was such an important part of what Mary dedicated herself to?

Tim: My mom's passion for gender equality was massive in our lives growing up. It was very clear that was always a huge mission for her. She was a very proud feminist.

Jesse: I think she saw firsthand through her own history, and being a teacher in the early 1970s. She would be the first to recognize problems or oppressions.

Tom: She never stopped growing. My world wasn’t political when we met and fell in love, but I learned all about it and now I’m an advocate myself.

Long-term Impact

When you open a fund at the Foundation, we work with you and your loved ones to perpetuate your values, passions or philanthropic interests and ensure your donations have long-term impact.

Why did you decide to create a fund?

Tim: We looked into the idea that there are local foundations that have community purpose, and I think Mom would have liked the fact that this is not ours, this is for the community.

Jesse: I was impressed that [the Foundation] cared so much about what was really, in the grand scheme of things, a fairly [modest] fund.

Heidi [Philanthropic Advisor]: We feel like we get to step into your family for a moment and see what your fund is doing and the difference that it's making. It's grown so much!

Jesse Tom and Tim sitting outside

Doing Good in the Community

When you partner with us, it’s more than just a transaction. You’ll receive personalized guidance to carry out your charitable vision.

Jesse Tom Tim and their Dog

What’s the biggest benefit of your partnership with the Foundation?

Tom: Our fund is doing good in the community.

Jesse: You have our back. You truly care about our purpose and mission.

Learn how easy it is to start your own fund with the Foundation today. Our team is ready to support you in your giving priorities.

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